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Where does Men stands in Women

OKAY! So, let’s talk about life this time. Not only of a women but just life. In this era where everywhere the slogan of women empowerment is at peak, how empowered you feel you are as an individual. I have this question especially for men out there. Are you happy with the current situation?  Are you satisfied with whatsoever is going on in the society these days? Well, as per my research, the men I know are extremely disappointed with the current situation the world is in. The question arises that who is happy then? Who is satisfied? Who are we fighting for? Is the fight worth it?
Men are so frustrated with this equality thing that they have internally started a cold war with all the women fighting for the empowerment. This thing has not always been spoken out loudly but it does happen. It is still happening and it will keep happening until the way of getting empowerment doesn’t change.
Now, how will the scenario change? When instead of lowering the men, the focus is all over equal treatment of both the genders then maybe somewhere this issue can be resolved. When the problems with men will be dealt with equal seriousness as with the women, then maybe somewhere the problem could be resolved. When the threats men are suffering from are cured with equal sensitivity, then maybe the problem could be resolved. The world is too big, and so big are its sufferings and each suffering should be looked forward to.

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  1. Unknown25 February 2018 at 00:45

    Well done bro..this is very nice :)

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  2. shweta25 February 2018 at 01:39

    Nice work

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  3. Unknown25 February 2018 at 10:02

    Kudos!! You have really penned down your thoughts beautifully through this blog. However, being a man of this very society, i always ask myself a question 'Is this the only way you can empower women' !!! Take for an example Hindu dowry laws..In the name of empowering women through these laws, Men are actually living in an environment of fear. Cases say it all when it has been felt that these laws have been misused to threaten men and punishments hve been read out to the innocent men without checking genuine facts. Today, men feel women empowerment is infringement of men's rights. Reservations of women in educational institutions such as IITs or IIMs prove their point. Its time when steps are needed to remove that sense of fear among men. Or else, we would be creating a society wherein men would feel threatened of women's existence around them.

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    1. Unknown26 February 2018 at 06:42

      I am glad my blog insisted you to write what u feel like.:)
      Kudos to the facts you shared
      And yeah, all these issues need to be focused on before its too late.
      Thanks for your views though. :)

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  4. Unknown26 February 2018 at 01:12

    Thank you

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  5. Unknown16 March 2018 at 23:10

    Nice

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