DUMB WOMEN’S

Long way has to be travelled. A very, very long. But to travel, We need to know how to run. And even before that, We need to know how to walk. I will explain these lines later.

Before that, I would like to ask, to everyone, Concerned to women and their safety. How do we assure the safety of women? Ummm,

All right! Let’s list out the actions we should take in order to make sure that there’s enough secure world waiting out there for all we ladies.

Number 1-  Wear full clothes.

Number 2- Don’t roam on streets after 7.

Number 3- Walk with your eyes down.

Number 4- Don’t make male friends.   

Etc etc.

Convincing enough?

Well, I am a 20 year old Journalism student, Grown up in the liberal-est Family, having a father and brothers no less than gems, Allhamdollilah. But wait, In the beautiful process of growing up what led me to think about something like this? How this urge evolved in someone like me to talk about such sensitive issue?

 Did only Men made me feel so? NO, NEVER. Then?

It is the Society, Yes. The society always kept a check on me that I never forget that I am a Girl and I am always required to ‘STAY WITHIN MY LIMITS’.

Dear Society, Here’s an open letter for all of you. Before you teach us what to do.

Here’s a piece of suggestion you need to work on. The basic thing you can do is  please do tell your sons as well that they are not supposed to consider women a ‘FOOL’. Here is where the problem starts from. Yes, this time I won’t ask the society to teach their sons to respect or to honour women. But please, just do not insert this thing in your Childs mind.

Men, not only by their own self but due to the societies impact, mistakes themselves to be much more intelligent and smart, No offence, but this ultimately leads them to do whatever they want to with the women out there.  Be it considering them as an object or showing them disrespect of any sort, sexual harassment, Eve teasing, Marital Rapes and Physical violence is also an outcome of thinking themselves stronger than women.

We are physically less empowered than you, I agree. But NEVER confuse it with the weakness of our will, spirit and minds. If we come on our real self, leaving our emotional part at side, we can lower the mountains with our esteem. And each one of you, at some point of your life, will definitely meet a women who will prove this to you.

I would put an end to this blog of mine with a small expectation of putting a little pressure on your mind, my friend and become serious of not considering women as a ‘FOOL’ anymore.

Till then, all my lovely ladies. . More Power to you :)